World Childless Week is 11-17th Sept 2023. This week was created by Stephanie Joy Phillips in 2017 to support and raise awareness of the childless not by choice community, and enable every childless person to share their story with confidence.

Tilly was founded by former fertility patients to support others going through fertility struggles. Being childless not by choice is a stigma and a life crisis that is rarely talked about openly. Tilly wants to be part of changing this and we applaud the World Childless Week initiative. Thank you World Childless Week for putting the spotlight on something that touches so many in our society. 

Thank you also to Resolve for highlighting this week and being part of breaking down the stigma.

Together we can support and raise awareness of a struggle that affects so many!

World Childless Week is 11-17th Sept 2023. This week was created by Stephanie Joy Phillips in 2017 to support and raise awareness of the childless not by choice (cnbc) community and enable every childless person to share his or her story with confidence.

Tilly is recognizing World Childless Week

Jenny Ann Johnson is the founder of Tilly. She’s spent a decade working on digital educational products prior to founding Tilly. After struggling with infertility and miscarriages for many years she finally found her path forward and is today blessed with four children. She is now creating the supportive and educational tools she herself was missing while going through fertility treatments.

This week (April 21-27) marks National Infertility Awareness Week, NIAW, in the U.S. Do you know someone who is struggling?

“It can’t be very common; I don’t know anyone who has been struggling.” 

“And if you have a fertility problem, you can just do IVF, right?” 

“Or maybe then it just wasn’t meant to happen…”

There are a lot of misunderstandings when it comes to fertility struggles, both in terms of how common it is and how it affects people.

Do you know anyone with red hair? Well, that’s 1 in 100. Do you know anyone who is left-handed? That’s 1 in 10. Infertility affects 1 in 6, according to the World Health Organization (WHO).

So, if you aren’t struggling to have a baby yourself, you probably still know someone who is. The stigma surrounding infertility makes it something that is rarely talked about in society, though, making it seem like it’s not that much of a problem.

And how about IVF being that golden ticket? Well, on average, it takes 3 IVF treatments to succeed, but that’s only the average. Some people are trying for years and years, still with no luck. Unfortunately, infertility comes with no guarantees of success. With a global average cost of $10,000+ per treatment, the stress of infertility is not only dependent on desperately wanting to have a child; the financial stress is real as well - and sometimes means that IVF is not an option at all.

Tilly was founded by two former fertility patients, and one of our main goals is to help break the stigma around fertility struggles by opening up the conversation about it and ensuring fertility patients all over the world get the support they need. With fertility patients experiencing stress levels and anxiety on par with people facing a cancer diagnosis, it’s time that we start talking about this and make it a well-known fact.

National Infertility Awareness Week (NIAW) was founded in 1989 by RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association in the U.S. Its mission is to empower you and change the conversation around infertility. This year's theme is “leave your mark.”

Well, here are three areas where Tilly would like to contribute to leaving a mark and creating lasting change when it comes to the conversation about fertility:

We urge schools to start educating students about fertility, not only how to prevent pregnancies but also that a successful pregnancy is not a given. There is so much we are not taught about fertility, conception, and especially about the female body: how it works, how common issues like PCOS and Endometriosis are, and how they can affect fertility.

 The pill is one of the greatest inventions of the 20th century, but you should at least be informed that when you are on the pill, you do not have a natural period, and that being on the pill can mask a lot of potential fertility risk factors. If you are on the pill, you do not still have a real period until you stop taking them - and without a period, no natural conception.

 The mental roller-coaster of infertility and fertility treatments is tough, so much so that the number one reason to stop treatment is the mental toll it takes. We believe it’s time to include mental and emotional support for all fertility patients. This should be the normal support - not something that a few high-end clinics offer. (And yes, of course, Tilly is here to support all of those clinics who are already taking steps to embed this into their regular care).

We also want to celebrate that even if we still have a long way to go, there are also so many beautiful initiatives within fertility health and patient care. Below are just a few of our favourites. Go, go, go, all of you who are hard at work creating a better world for preventing and solving fertility problems and also making sure those who struggle get the best care.

- RESOLVE: the U.S national association for Infertility - the founder of NIAW.

- The Institute of Reproductive Grief Care - (Psst, if you are unfortunate enough to be touched by pregnancy loss, we can recommend joining their latest research study to contribute to better care for other miscarriage patients. Read more here.)

- Ovulai is on a mission to educate and support women with PCOS.

- And of course, all of those clinics out there that every day strive to give their patients both the best medical care but also the best emotional support.

Take care everyone, Jenny Ann Johnson, founder of Tilly, and former fertility patient.

This week (April 21-27) marks National Infertility Awareness Week in the U.S. Do you know someone who is struggling?

1 in 6 is Affected by Infertility - This Week is National Infertility Awareness Week

Maya Maria Brown, M.A., is an infertility mental health expert. She has a master’s in Counseling Psychology, and has worked with individuals and couples on infertility and relationships. She also has personal experience with infertility and is currently in treatment.

Experiencing pregnancy loss is more common than we might think, yet the profound impact it has on individuals often goes unrecognized by society and even healthcare providers. The Institute of Reproductive Grief Care is addressing this gap through their dedicated efforts to bring research and education on this crucial topic to a broader audience. Today, we're shedding light on some pivotal findings from "The Trauma of Perinatal Loss: A Scoping Review", a study that one of their Healthcare Task Force Members released during one of their quarterly Research Reveals series. This study delves into the research surrounding the trauma of baby loss(*) - here are 5 key takeaways which summarizes the main findings:

1. Baby Loss as a Real and Long-Term Trauma:

It’s probably not a surprise to all who have suffered from baby loss, but the research in the review makes it clear that baby loss is a real and long-term trauma for many parents. Research indicates that up to 60% of bereaved parents undergo post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) following baby loss. Contrary to the belief that time heals all wounds, a study revealed that 44% of women reported PTSD up to four years after the loss, emphasizing the long-lasting impact. In fact, the effects can extend for up to 12 years, dispelling the notion that one should be "over" the loss quickly. So if you have experienced loss and are not “over it” yet - know that you are not alone.

The study also acknowledges that the trauma of baby loss is something that affects many parts of the parents' lives and that it’s not uncommon to feel stuck and unable to move forward with life. The trauma of baby loss can lead to feelings of anger, hostility, and social sensitivity. Additionally, affected individuals may experience sleep disturbances, eating disorders, dizziness, and headaches. Recognizing the holistic impact of this trauma is essential for providing comprehensive support.

The study underscores the significant influence of social support in navigating the emotional aftermath of baby loss. Friends and family play a crucial role in providing understanding and empathy, particularly during vulnerable milestones such as learning about the diagnosis, sharing the news, and the days, weeks, and months following the loss. So for anyone close to someone experiencing loss - you being there, listening and not downplaying the loss can make a huge difference for your friend. And, please remember that anyone, regardless of gender, who experiences baby loss is affected by it. The study revealed that men reported that they rarely received emotional support from their healthcare providers or their own social circle. Often the task of conveying the news of the loss also became that of the father, something that was itself.

Healthcare providers can significantly influence the intensity of parents' emotional trauma. Acknowledging the loss and normalizing emotional responses are essential steps. The study advocates for follow-up care for at least a year after the loss, recognizing the enduring nature of the trauma. It also highlights the added emotional and psychological challenges during subsequent pregnancies after a loss.

Specific moments during the journey of loss, including learning of the diagnosis, birth (if relevant), and the days, weeks, and months following the loss, are particularly vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Being aware of and providing support during these milestones can have a profound healing effect.

We extend our appreciation to the Reproductive Grief Institute for illuminating these critical findings. Understanding the trauma experienced by those affected by baby loss is vital, and the study offers valuable insights and practical advice for friends, family, and healthcare providers. By collectively embracing this knowledge, we aim to make the challenging journey of baby loss a little more manageable for those who endure it.

Note: *Perinatal loss is the academic term for a pregnancy loss sometime between conception and birth, or of the loss of an infant up to 28 days after birth - but we have chosen to use the term “baby loss” here instead.

Pregnancy loss is more common than we might think, yet its profound impact is often overlooked. The Institute of Reproductive Grief Care aims to bridge this gap by promoting research and education on the subject. In this article, we will highlight some of the finding from their recent study, "The Trauma of Perinatal Loss: A Scoping Review", which sheds light on this important topic.

Navigating the Trauma of Baby Loss: Insights from Reproductive Grief Research

Struggling to conceive is a daunting and, undeniably, stressful journey. But could stress itself be sabotaging your chances of achieving and sustaining a pregnancy? This question can intensify the emotional load for couples and individuals grappling with fertility issues. In today's article, we will delve into the research behind the relationship between stress and infertility.

The belief that stress plays a role in fertility issues goes a long way back, and unfortunately, more often than not, women and women’s minds have been blamed for it. In the 1940s, unexplained infertility was linked to psychological causes attributed to women, assuming factors like their (lacking) desires for motherhood, marital relationship troubles, or even childhood traumas as potential sources of "sterility".

Thankfully, our understanding has evolved significantly. We've acknowledged the role of men in fertility issues and have gained a more in-depth understanding of the complexity of the mind-body connection. However, the myth linking mental stress to fertility issues persists, leaving us to ask: does stress and anxiety truly affect fertility negatively?

One thing is clear: common advice like "just relax, and it'll happen" doesn't help (if something they probably do the opposite, as comments like that can create feelings of anger and hurt).

What Does Science Say About The Impact of Stress on Fertility?

Recent research does, however, suggest that stress may influence fertility, although the relationship between stress and infertility remains intricate and not fully comprehended. 

For instance, a study involving over 500 women in the United States revealed a potential link between high levels of silvery α-amylase, an enzyme released in response to stress, and a prolonged time to pregnancy and infertility. Other studies have also indicated an association between long-term elevated levels of cortisol, known as a "stress hormone," and delayed time to pregnancy. 

Another study involving 135 in vitro fertilization (IVF) patients, using hair samplings to measure cortisol levels from the preceding 3-6 months, found that heightened cortisol levels correlated with lower pregnancy rates. This led the study's authors to suggest that interventions aimed at reducing cortisol levels before fertility treatment might enhance treatment outcomes. 

Moreover, this scientific study involving stressed rats demonstrated a lower fertility rate in those, compared to their non-stressed mates. However, blocking a specific stress hormone led to equivalent pregnancy outcomes in both groups. (This potential “blocker” of the influence of stress is still a long way from being available to humans though).

5 Ways Through Which Stress Can Negatively Influence Fertility

The research delves into various factors through which stress potentially influences fertility:

1. Disruption of Hormonal Balance: Chronic stress can disrupt the normal hormonal balance, potentially affecting menstrual cycles and ovulation, complicating the conception process.

2. Negative Impact on Implantation: Mental stress during early pregnancy might hinder the endometrial lining's function, making healthy implantation more challenging to achieve.

3. Impaired Immune Response: Studies suggest stress could negatively affect the immune system response, critical for reproductive outcomes. However, the role of the immune system in pregnancy outcomes remains an area of debate.

4. Impact on Sperm Quality: Self-reported long-term stress among men has shown correlations with sperm quality. Ironically enough, certain stressful events, like leaving a semen sample, seem to also adversely affect semen quality.

5. Stress & Libido: It's widely acknowledged that stress and sex don't mesh well, and in fertility cases, it's a combination that's far from favorable, potentially affecting the time taken to achieve pregnancy.

Measuring stress accurately remains challenging, with inconclusive or unsupportive results in some studies. Nonetheless, research implies that therapeutic interventions might enhance fertility treatment outcomes, a finding that indirectly supports the idea that mental health and stress influence fertility.

Does Therapeutic Support Improve Fertility Treatment Outcomes?

Could therapeutic support decrease time to pregnancy and increase fertility treatment outcome?

Several studies suggest it might! For instance, a comprehensive 2015 analysis encompassing 39 studies and involving over 2700 women and men highlighted the potential efficacy of psychosocial interventions, particularly Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and mind-body techniques (techniques that link the body and the mind, e.g. yoga, meditation, guided imagery). This analysis found that those using psychological strategies to manage stress were twice as likely to achieve pregnancy compared to couples who did not use such methods. While these findings are promising, researchers underscore the need for more extensive studies to establish a definitive link between therapy and fertility outcomes.

Regardless of the exact link between stress and fertility, it’s clear that working on your mental health while struggling with fertility can have a positive impact on your mental well-being and quality of life. And, that potentially it might even up your chances of success on your fertility journey!

As a former fertility patient, I absolutely don't want to add stress by sharing the above findings. I myself have wrestled with worries about how stress might affect my chances of having a baby while I was trying to have a baby. When I founded Tilly, one of my main goals was to support others through the tough journey of fertility struggles, equipping them with research-based information on mental well-being and fertility (while acknowledging ongoing debates). My intention with the above is thus not to scare you but to shed light on pressing questions you might already be pondering about how stress impacts fertility. On a brighter note, once you (hopefully) get pregnant, and if you, like I was, are freaked out during the whole pregnancy, research actually suggests that high levels of the stress hormone cortisol in the third semester might positively impact the language development of your children.

Struggling to conceive is a daunting and stressful journey. But could stress itself be sabotaging your chances of achieving and sustaining a pregnancy? This article seeks to answer this question by delving deep into the current body of evidence on the relationship between stress and infertility!

Can Stress Impact Fertility? Unraveling the Complex Link Between Mental Health and Infertility

In a recent seminar organized by the European Fertility Society, Tilly's founder, Jenny Ann Johnson, shared insights on the transformative potential of artificial intelligence (AI) to improve patient care during fertility treatment. 

In the seminar, hosted by Prof. Johnny Awwad, at Sidra Medicine & Research Center, Jenny Ann together with Cecilie Hvidberg Jakobsen, Founder and CEO of Wawa fertility and Alina Latus, Founder of the Hope App, explored the various applications of AI in fertility care, shedding light on how this technology can revolutionize the medical and emotional aspects of infertility treatment.

1. AI Optimization of Fertility Treatment

AI's ability to analyze large datasets presents a groundbreaking opportunity to optimize the medical side of fertility treatment. For a medical professional this means that instead of asking a few trusted colleagues when you come across a tricky case - you can ask thousands of colleagues. By processing patient data from thousands or even millions of patients, including medical history, genetic markers, hormonal levels, and lifestyle factors, AI can assist in accelerating new findings and personalizing treatment plans, significantly improving success rates. For instance, AI algorithms can enhance embryo selection in IVF procedures, leading to more successful outcomes. 

2. Personalized Emotional Support with AI

AI's role extends beyond medical optimization to personalized emotional support. Through analyzing user data, AI algorithms can deliver tailored content and support individuals in coping with the emotional challenges of infertility. In addition, by freeing up time for medical professionals through streamlined processes, AI enables medical professionals to focus on patient relationships, ensuring a more empathetic and personalized treatment journey. 

AI-powered chatbots offer accessible self-help options, complementing traditional therapy and providing immediate support. Studies have highlighted the beneficial impact of chatbots in therapy, making emotional and mental support available 24/7. This digital support ensures that patients feel acknowledged and supported throughout their fertility journey. 

4. AI Complements, Not Replaces, Human Connection

While AI provides personalized support, it cannot replace the human connection and expertise of medical professionals - in the end it still has to be the medical professional that makes the decisions together with the patient. AI should be viewed as a complementary resource. Prof. Johnny Awwad emphasized the importance of maintaining human connection in fertility care, with AI assisting medical providers in obtaining actionable data and spending more quality time with patients. 

5. Addressing Risks of AI in Infertility Treatment

AI's ability to provide personalized predictions introduces a potential risk of creating a false sense of certainty. Patients need to be educated about statistics and risks associated with fertility treatments. Despite high success rates, there is always a chance of failure, and patients should be informed that infertility is not their fault. Balancing hope with realism is crucial for managing expectations and providing comprehensive support. 

As AI continues to evolve in the realm of fertility care, it holds great promise for optimizing medical treatment and delivering better, more personalized emotional support. At the same time, it is essential to keep in mind some of the inherent limitations of AI, and maintain human connection to ensure patient-centred infertility care. 

For anyone interested in learning more about how AI may impact patient care during fertility treatment, the full seminar has been made available to watch here. 

In a recent seminar organized by the European Fertility Society, Tilly's founder, Jenny Ann Johnson, shared insights on the transformative potential of artificial intelligence (AI) to improve patient care during fertility treatment. Jenny Ann together with Prof. Johnny Awwad, Chair of Women's Services at Sidra Medicine & Research Center, and other FemTech entrepreneurs within the fertility healthcare sphere, explored how new AI technology can be implemented in fertility care and revolutionize the medical and emotional aspects of infertility treatment.

Revolutionizing Fertility Care: 5 Ways AI Transforms Patient Support

Infertility and pregnancy loss is a deeply personal and often stigmatized issue that affects millions of individuals and couples worldwide. In fact 

1 in 6 couples struggle to have a child . For women over 35, up to 34% are diagnosed with infertility.  

Up to 1 in 4 pregnancies ends in miscarriage.

While the emotional toll of infertility and pregnancy loss is well-documented, its impact on employees in the workplace is a topic that often goes unnoticed. The journey through fertility treatments, emotional ups and downs, and the societal pressure to start a family can significantly influence an individual's professional life. 

There are several ways infertility affects employees in the workplace, highlighting the importance of employers creating a supportive and inclusive work environment.

Dealing with infertility is an emotionally taxing experience. Employees facing fertility challenges may grapple with anxiety, depression, and feelings of isolation. The demanding nature of fertility treatments, coupled with the uncertainty of success, takes a toll on an individual's mental well-being. In fact, fertility patients experience stress levels equivalent to those among cancer patients. In the workplace, these emotional struggles may manifest in reduced productivity, increased absenteeism, or difficulty concentrating on tasks. Studies have shown that up to 63% feel decreased engagement at work. Unfortunately, mental health issues are not only associated with the period of fertility struggles - former fertility patients are also at a higher risk of postpartum depression.

2. Balancing Work and Fertility Treatments

Fertility treatments often involve a rigorous schedule of appointments, medications, and procedures. Employees may find it challenging to balance these demands with their work responsibilities. Frequent medical appointments and the need for flexibility can create stress for individuals who may fear judgment or professional repercussions. Employers who offer flexible work schedules, remote work options, and supportive policies and tools can help ease the burden on employees navigating fertility treatments.

Infertility is often surrounded by societal stigma, which can seep into the workplace. Employees may fear disclosing their fertility struggles due to concerns about judgment, discrimination or disrespect. In fact, 1 in 2 of those struggling with infertility choose not to tell their employer. One in five has considered leaving their job because of their experience at work in relation to fertility challenges. Fostering a workplace culture that prioritizes inclusivity and empathy can create a supportive environment where employees feel comfortable sharing their challenges without fear of negative consequences. 	 

Employees navigating infertility may experience that this is also impacting career timelines. The pressure to align personal and professional goals can lead to delayed career advancements and decisions to postpone promotions or job changes. Employers can support employees by providing mentorship, guidance, and open communication about career trajectories that accommodate both personal and professional aspirations.

It is important not to make any assumptions about who may be struggling

While age has a negative impact on fertility, especially for women, infertility also affects young people looking to build a family. Also, someone can be “fit and healthy” and still struggle with infertility or baby loss. In addition, fertility issues are something that both men and women are experiencing, and both partners can be equally burdened by the emotional and mental health impact of undergoing fertility challenges. Secondary infertility, where someone has a child from before, but is struggling with having a sibling, can also have a devastating impact on someone's mental well-being. Fertility challenges can also affect same-sex couples, and individuals looking to start a family on their own, so not making assumptions about where someone is in the process of building a family and if they might be struggling is very important.	 	 	

Infertility is a complex and deeply personal experience that extends its reach into various aspects of an individual's life, including their professional endeavors. Employers play a crucial role in fostering a workplace culture that recognizes and supports employees facing fertility challenges. By implementing supportive policies, destigmatizing the conversation around infertility, and providing resources for emotional well-being, workplaces can become more inclusive and compassionate spaces for those navigating the often-silent struggle of infertility.

Studies have shown that for someone struggling with fertility issues feeling supported by their employer, line manager, and colleagues has a positive impact on:

The employee's ability to perform well on the job.

The employee's intention to stay with his or her employer.	

The employee's likelihood of recommending his or her employer.	 	 	 	

Creating a supporting workplace for those struggling with infertility is hence not only a compassionate choice - it is a sound business decision!

If you want to find out more about why organizations like Frost use Tilly to support their employees and discuss how Tilly can help support your organization reach out today at hello@mytilly.co

Four ways infertility and pregnancy loss impacts employees in the workplace

The holidays are upon us, which means a whirlwind of parties, gatherings, and more logistical juggling than a circus act. But here's the thing: for those dealing with infertility, all this planning and socializing can hit differently.

Trying to plot out your holiday calendar when you're in the 'fertility challenged' club is a minefield of emotions. Will you be pregnant by then? Is it a good call to be in a crowd? A bazillion questions pop up, making the whole ordeal stressful. And if you're in the middle of a treatment, traveling might not be a walk in the park.

Let's face it, holiday bashes and mingling with friends and family can stress out anyone. But for those facing fertility battles, it's like cranking the stress dial up to 11.

Know that you are not alone though! At Tilly, we've been there. We get it. That's why we've whipped up a guide on surviving the holidays (check it out here). And you don't always have to choose between rocking around the Christmas tree with loved ones or holing up solo (or with your partner only). Balance is key! You could swing by your family's place for a couple of days instead of the usual week-long marathon.

For those extra days, try to carve out some "me time." Whether it's hitting up a daily yoga class, sweating it out at the gym solo, or just taking a solitary stroll. Oh, and if you're crashing at your family's, make sure to snag moments away—lock the door, dig into a book, or why not dive into the Tilly community for some support? 😉

Sure, these festivities will probably not be the best holiday season you’ll ever have, but with a bit of thought, they could be pretty okay. It might even recharge your batteries.

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